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Getting by with Less

Recently, I encountered a couple of friends chatting. One was saying what a challenge it is to make ends meet; the other quickly responded, “We’re all broke. Nobody wants to hear about it.” That got me thinking. If we’re all broke, isn’t it something we need to discuss? Certainly there are factors beyond our control, but how can we change this experience? Getting by with less is possible. Getting by with less requires living simply, changing perspective and habits.

SEPARATE WANTS FROM NEEDS

In our culture, it’s often hard to separate wants from needs. We relate to the world through consumption, buying the hottest new item or upgrading to the latest tech device. Even if you’re not a shopaholic, small things add up. A daily stop for coffee? Dinner out with friends? The truth is that these things are luxuries, and cutting them out can save you a bundle.

Part of this is recognition – identifying the wants in our lives that are masquerading as needs. What challenges can we take on ourselves? DIY projects, self-taught skills, and creative thinking allow us to circumvent unnecessary costs in our lives, and identify our priorities.

The other part is letting go, realizing that your possessions don’t define you, and lightening your footprint on the world. We are convinced we need all sorts of gadgets and adornments that, upon closer inspection, hold us down rather than propel us forward. They are distractions to keep us from focusing on what is really important.

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SIMPLIFY

When I quit my job two years ago to become a freelancer, I knew things would be tough – at least for a while. A client base doesn’t appear overnight and even when you have a steady one, work comes and goes. The first thing I learned was to eat rice and beans often. It’s a complete (and do I have to mention cheap?) meal, providing protein and clean carb energy. I got off organics, choosing to buy from inexpensive farmer’s markets instead. I started eating with the seasons and gave up things that don’t grow here. Simplifying my diet also made me healthier, bringing me closer to my sources of food.

I began living more simply as well, opting to invite friends over for potlatches rather than dining out, or even just a cup of tea. The simplicity of a hike with friends or creating fun projects became far more inspiring than the hazy nights out at bars that inevitably ended in a did-I-drink-that-much tab. It’s not to say partying is bad, but it’s expensive. Go out drinking a lot? Don’t complain when things are tight.

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PLAN AHEAD

Organization and preparation are two skills that can stretch your funds too …particularly when it comes to food. It’s astonishing how quickly little things can add up. Making smart purchases, cooking at home and planning ahead can mean more savings to take your next trip.

By creating a schedule by which to live, you not only retain boundaries with your time – you retain them in your resources. Build your food purchases around the best local market or your availability. Make a list before you go and don’t buy extraneous items – anything from candy to face cream. Take the time to weigh what you really need, so when you arrive at the supermarket you’ll have a plan. And of course, never shop while hungry.

The same goes for any other purchases. Don’t buy things on a whim. If you know you need something (as I recently realized I needed a new laptop), plan for its purchase. Budget the money with a consciousness of how it may affect you in the upcoming month. I’m a big fan of setting aside whatever amount I can of each “paycheck” (obviously that term is relative for me since I don’t know the frequency / quantity) and put it inside a sealed jar. I do everything I can not to dip into what I have set aside, because I set it aside planning ahead for what I would need in terms of my living expenses.

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PARE DOWN

We all have stuff we don’t need. You know what I’m talking about – the boxes tucked away in closets or attics, the storage rooms and things that simply don’t serve us. I believe the experience of shedding all that stuff is not only cathartic, it can make you some cash. It’s amazing how quickly we can unburden ourselves of our things. Between consignment shops, online classifieds or auctions and donations it’s not a hard thing to do. The hardest part is changing your perspective.

We often feel that we need things because somehow they represent us a people – they show our taste, reveal our personality and achievements, but the truth is they no more represent us than clouds represent the sky they pass through. We are not our things, and in fact, each one of our things is like a tiny weight that we drag through life. It slows us down, retards our decisions and leaves us with anxiety and a lack of fulfillment.

Let go of your things. Sell them if you feel inspired to do so; you’ll be shocked how little you’ll miss them.

How do you get by with less? Thoughts on our ideas? Share in the comments below!

Mittie.Roger
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Mittie Roger has been blogging for 5 years; her blog focuses on off the beaten path travel in the Americas. Both a blogger and a social media consultant, Mittie works with writers, brands, and artists of many mediums. Her first book of short stories, Aurora, was published in December of 2013 after its title story, “Aurora”, received second place in the 2012 Richard Bausch contest. Her fiction has also appeared in Our Stories and Monkey Puzzle Literary Magazine and her non-fiction has appeared in Land Rover Magazine, Land Rover Monthly and Fuse. Her most recent publication, These Boots Are Made for Walking: Travel Journal and Workbook, uses creative prompts to get you thinking differently, traveling more and experiencing life.

6 Comments
  • Renea Hanna
    Posted at 14:22h, 27 June

    goodness, this is soooo spot on! i’ve been paring down so that i can save for our upcoming move and am amazed at how much money i was just letting fly out my window every month on pointless frivolities. you have some great tips in here…i hope this inspires other to be a little more frugal. there is a definite satisfaction that comes with having money saved and not a need in the world. when you live simply, peace of mind is so much easier to come by…at least, it has for me anyhow. thanks for this excellent article! 🙂

  • Sarah
    Posted at 14:56h, 27 June

    Very nice! I appreciate this article.

  • James Michael Taylor
    Posted at 15:39h, 27 June

    As I grow older, I’ve learned with painful clarity that financial freedom is life freedom. When you’re overburdened with stuff and the consumption thereof, you aren’t leveraging your income against your liabilities, you’re leveraging your happiness / time / freedom / mobility / options / future / peace against your possessions and indulgences.

    Great post, thank you for writing it!

  • Adam Keck
    Posted at 22:00h, 30 June

    Awesome article! The time I lose to curating and managing stuff hurts me the most. I can make or save money, but I can’t earn, buy, or bank raw time. I’m finding that even with very good channels at work for getting rid of extra things, it takes weeks for each "transaction." Buying that stuff took mere seconds in some cases.

  • Mittie Roger
    Posted at 04:46h, 17 July

    I agree. Thanks for sharing, Adam.

  • Adam Keck
    Posted at 18:11h, 14 November

    Speaking of "Rice and Beans"… http://www.paulgraham.com/ramenprofitable.html

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